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Why would any man in his his right full sense do this to a woman he vowed to stay with until death do them part?for heavens sake she didn't kill ur mother,neither did she sleep with ur father,what could she have done to deserve all this,battered face and limb chopped off,u wan chop the finger?if you feel ur diamond crusted ring does not belong there,why not remove it with ease,just the same way u put it on your wedding day?So where is justice?this man was nt arrested,neither was he thrown in jail,please why wont this go on when they know they can always get away with it,Marriage is so scary dis day,do women start making written agreement now that husbands should promise that there wont be severe beating or acid bath, cos this matter dey make me sweat o.
Thinking twice about marriage sha. i will rather be single and safe o!!!
My dear, I've been married twice. I assure you that this is not the first time these women have been abused. It starts gradually. It might start with verbal abuse, or just pushing, or breaking things or hitting his hand on the wall or any object around. These are signs. If he hits you once, study shows that he'll hit you again, no matter how much he cried and begged you afterwards to forgive him, how much gifts and flowers he bought kneeling down and asking you to forgive him. History has a way of repeating itself when it comes to abuse. These brutally battered woman must have been abused repeatedly before it gets to this brutal and fatal point. My take on this: MARRIAGE IS NO MORE A DO OR DIE AFFAIR. IF HE HITS YOU ONCE, IT'S NOT WORTH IT. IF HE MADE YOU A PUNCHING BAG ONCE, THEN YOU'RE A PUNCHING BAG TO HIM. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!! Physical abuse is impulsive. It's the adrenaline working so his head can't think right until after the abuse. Our society is not helping matters either
ReplyDeleteIts not like that ohh!!! marriage is sweet if you put God first and learn to respect your man. Men are not evil but females need to learn how and when to talk. sometimes they turn their men into monsters without realising it..the bottom line you need God in your marriage to succeed.
ReplyDeleteI'm married wit 3wonderful kids,it aint perfect but thnk God d good times r more...pls ladies if a guy lays his hands on u RUN,life has no duplicate,I just bliv its only lazy women dat take dis cos der r scared to work out something for themselves depending solely on d man...ders absolutely no excuse for hitting a woman
ReplyDeleteForced marriages often lead to this.
ReplyDeletePeople should base their relationships on mutual love. In Nigerian culture I know of many women made to marry to placate their parents or societal pressures.
Eventually these women become oppressed into submission and become the focus of domestic abuse, this then leads to them feeling isolated and become victimised.
Marriage is not the highest attainment of human success, it means nothing when you are unhappy. That is why people cheat, this is what leads to abuse.
Human companionship can only function if the two people involved are in agreement.
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