It's important you have something doing. You CAN NOT be
waiting for something to do. DO ANYTHING. DONT WAIT FOR WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
It has been proven time without number, that a woman
respects a man who provides... more than she respects a man that CAN NOT
PROVIDE.
There are huge differences between a man that CAN NOT
PROVIDE/ A MAN THAT CAN PROVIDE/ and A MAN CAN PROVIDE BUT DOES NOT WANT TO
PROVIDE. You may fall into any of these categories. But if it's the right one
well done. If it's not, hey!!!! Brotherly, there is work to be done.
Forget anything anybody tells you, 50% of why many marriages
survive, besides the core ingredients of love, respect, understanding and
sex... Is PROVISION.
The struggle we get involved in everyday, is just so we can
provide. Like my friend, Zakiloooo always says, NA OUR WIVES AND CHILDREN ALL
THESE STRUGGLE DEY FOR. Because, he would explain further... We for just begin
grooooove enter Ghana, Kenya, Jo'Burg, Uk, Dubai...
BOTTOMLINE, we must know that, if we make 25K, family must
get 10K, 5K goes back into the business, savings go hold 5K and we will use the
last 5k to hold our side for in case of incasity and other cases of should in
case! Zakilo!!!!! God no dey sleep
So, my guys, no just SIDDON. Get up. Find something to do.
At all at all NA him bad pass. One of my guys in Warri, was dropped by GTB in
the last retrenchment when the new management took over, he said he waited for
a bit (5months) when it looked like all those job offers were not coming like
when he was employed, he had to do something... He started diesel supply.
Now, he says, the respect as the head of the house is
beginning to come back. He also says, men who say, it does not matter if your
wife is earning more than you do are being economical with the truth. Your ability
to provide MATTERS A GREAT DEAL. DONT LISTEN TO SOME LAZY BUMCUM WHO SAY ITS
NOTHING.
I agree totally.
So guys, lets get cracking. Even if it's a stop gap job.
Just do it. Not for you. But for the family. I know some will say, it's easy
for you to say. Dupe ti re!! No it's not. I started working in 1984 in
SuperBru, loading Skol lager beer in trailers and lorries for N5 a day. I have
worked in bakeries, taxi driver between Ring Road and Ogba Zoo in my dad's
yellow Toyota Crown... I have been, there done that...
We need to groom the next generation of men who believe in
dignity of labour, recognize that we are providers, head of the home, protector
of the HONOUR of the family and THE MAN. So get to work.
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